Originally published: June 2026
Any time is a great time to talk with your child about what it means to be an Indigenous ally. An ally is a settler (non-Indigenous person) who helps others understand the harms of colonization and its impacts on Indigenous communities. Allies challenge systems and ways of being that limit opportunities for Indigenous peoples. Allies take the time to learn about Indigenous history and cultural practice, and they look for ways to support Indigenous People.
A key part of allyship is listening to the voices of Indigenous Peoples. It’s essential to find out what you can do to be an ally and support actions Indigenous Peoples are comfortable with.
Allies are humble and always learning. With that in mind let’s explore tips for teaching kids about Indigenous allyship.
Help your child understand what an ally is – and what it isn’t
Talk with your child about the traits of Indigenous allies. Try these talking points:
- Allies respect that Indigenous Peoples are the experts on their own realities. Allies never assume. They don’t insert their own opinions or values.
- Allies are committed. They do more than charitable efforts or one-time activities.
- Allies support action because it’s the right thing to do. They don’t look for rewards or recognition.
- Allies are aware of the space they take up, and they pass their power to Indigenous peoples. Allies don’t take the lead or steal the show.
Have honest talks with your child about their intentions for being an Indigenous ally. Help them reflect on whether their actions are respectful and meaningful.
Learn and share about truth and reconciliation
Have family conversations about truth and reconciliation. It can be tiring and difficult for Indigenous Peoples to take on the job of educating settlers. Help your child brainstorm what they’d like to learn about Indigenous history and culture, and how they’ll share their learning with peers. Remind them that an important role for allies is to share what they’re learning with others.
These kid-friendly sources can help:
- Phyllis’ Orange Shirt is a true story that helps kids understand the impact of residential schools. It has inspired people across the country to wear orange as a symbol that Every Child Matters.
- Indigenous myths and misconceptions is a series of fact sheets to help debunk myths about Indigenous Peoples, and foster understanding and compassion.
- Indigenous awareness days and events are special days, weeks, and events to celebrate Indigenous culture. Watch for local celebrations so that you and your child can learn from Elders and Knowledge Keepers in your area.
Teach your child to speak out against injustice
Remind your child that still today, Indigenous people experience racism and discrimination. Reassure them that all people deserve to be treated with fairness, justice, and kindness.
Encourage your child to speak up when they notice unfair treatment of Indigenous Peoples or communities. Together, watch How to be an ally to Indigenous Peoples in Canada, a short video with practical tips on what you, your child, and family can do.
Learning about Indigenous allyship is something children can grow into with your support. When you talk with your child, remind them that being an ally starts with listening, kindness, and respect. You can help your child build understanding and care for Indigenous peoples as they grow. If these conversations feel hard, it’s okay to reach out for help.
Indigenous allyship is a journey. Reach out for help if you need it:
- AHS Mental Health Help Line: 1-877-303-2642 (Available 24/7 to all people in Alberta)
- Hope for Wellness Help Line: 1-855-242-3310 (Available to all Indigenous people across Canada)
- Kids Help Phone: Young people can text 686868 for free, confidential support 24/7
Photo: Traditional Indigenous dancers from Maskwacis celebrate National Indigenous Peoples Day at Ponoka Elementary School June 21. Everyone was encouraged to join in. Photo by Emily Jaycox/Ponoka News. Used with permission.
